I'd like to call it more realistic than pessimistic. I was like that before, the ostrich. [Not so much now. Now she just faces things and figures out how to deal as she goes.]

I guess it would depend. On the kind of person that you are, and what you experienced. [She's quiet for a moment.] I had mine taken before, locked up somewhere I would never have been able to escape. I'd like to not lose it again.