I am not responsible for your choices. I only seek to offer advice and insight.

[Head-tilt.]

But my advice would be to desist. Perform the duties requested of you, and no further. Let them approach you when they are ready. When you feel the need to push the boundary, do so in your own time and with subjects unrelated to the kedan. When they have seen you can be trusted to value their choices, regardless of whether you agree, they will come to you.