Well, you can rest assured in the knowledge that I'm neither pitying you, nor am I the sort to allow myself to be imposed upon. Unless I'm in the right mood, I suppose.

I... [There's a slight hesitation] I'm working on a project, and I might need someone with your particular set of skills. Part-time, nothing terribly difficult. I can let you know when I've firmed up all the details, if that's acceptable?